The Complete Gay Slang For 2021
The 2021 Gay Sex Slangs you need to know
The LGBT community (like all other communities) has it's very own unique way of communicating with each other, and although it may be hard to keep up at times.
Auntie: An sissy older gay man or a manly older gay man who maybe sissy when he's with his close friends, he likes to take care of his gay daughters.
BB (n.) - Bareback, anal sex without condom.
BBC (n.) - Big Black Cock, definitely not a television channel.
Bear: An older, broader hairier man who unlike his namesake, does not need to hibernate.
Beefcake: A gay man who spends most of his time at the gym, and the rest of it scooping spoonfuls of protein supplement into his post-workout shakes.
BJ: A blowjob, or when someone wants to make a blowjob sound cool.
Bottom: The receptive sexual partner; also known as ‘someone who likes taking it in’.
Buff (n.) - A gay g
Buns: Butt or when someone wants to be cute about your butt.
Butterfly (n.) - A gay guy who likes to flirt from one guy to another guy and maybe sleep with all of them.
Chubby Chaser: A gay man who likes his sexual partners just like he likes his pillows – soft and cuddly.
Cokedick (n.) - 1. Not being able to get dick up despite serious efforts and a more more than willing mind. 2. When he puts coke on his dick and shove it in your ass hole.
Cocksicle: A BJ, again. Or when someone tries to make a bl*wjob sound even cooler, but fails miserably.
Countess (n.) - A homosexual (usually of regular age) who is well-mannered, elegant and often financially secure
Crush: A (possibly temporary) romantic attraction to someone, that may or may not be acted upon.
Cruise: To seek casual gay sex encounters — usually in restrooms, pubs or sometimes, even by the corner streetlight, so that you can regret them the morning after.
Cub: A younger version of the Bear, heavier than the Otter. May or may not deal with body issues.
Daddy: An older, established man who likes his scotch aged and his boys, young.
Daddy Chaser: A gay man who likes his partners older, richer, but not necessarily wiser.
Discreet: A man who is either in a relationship or in denial, and wants sex on the side.
Docking (n.) - Act of inserting a circumcised penis of one man into another gay man whose penis is uncut.
Dolphin (n.) - A slender, athletic, hairless bear.
Dom/Dominant/Master: A gay man who likes to play ‘Who’s the boss?’ in bed. Sexual toys may or may not be involved.
Donald Duck (n.) – a homosexual male who is dishonorably discharged from the Navy for their sexuality; see also: “Dishonorable Discharge,” or masturbating solo after trying to pick someone up and failing.
DP (n.) – Double Penetration with 2 cocks or 2 dildos or a mix of both.
Eyeball queen (n.) – person who derives pleasure from watching others engage in intercourse.
Face fuck (v.) - To slide one's cock in and out of someone's mouth usually while holding their head still or moving it in opposition to the movement of your hips.
Faggot - A rude thing to call a gay person.
Fairy: Another rude thing to call a gay person.
Felching (n.) Sucking or eating cum out of someone anus. It it delicious for the pig.
Fisting (n.) To insert a fist into a sexual area of the human body for sexual pleasure. It it practiced a lot among the pig community.
FF (v.) Fist fuck, To fuck the hole with a fist, not just to put it in. It gives a lot of pressure and pleasure when the pig can take it hard
Frot (n.) two men rubbing their penises together to create sexual sensations.
Full house (n.) – term used to denote having more than one Sexually Transmitted Infection at once.
Ginger (n.) - A gay guy with red hair.
Gold Star Gay (n.) - A gay man who has never had sexual contact with a vagina but was naturally born through the vagina so he had vaginal contact, just not sexually. (See also Platinum Gay/Platinum Star Gay)
Hershey Highway: When someone wants to make anal sex sound more desirable.
Homoflexible (n.) – A person who is mostly attracted to the same sex/gender, but can, on occasion be attracted to the opposite sex/gender.
Hunk (n.) – A very good looking muscular sexygay man who's good at satisfying his partners.
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Iron Closet: A gay man who is in such deep denial of his sexuality, he might never step out of the closet.
Jock (n.) – Athlethic gay guys who like to play sport that's why their bodies are hot. Some of them are dumb some of them are really smart but they're basically fit. A jock may normally be a top but he can switch to bottom for more muscular or dom guys.
Katoey (n.) – Transgender woman, ladyboy.
Kinky (adj.) – Anything that is not Vanilla sexually, but peach apricot with hazelnuts.
Lollipop: The opposite of Shrimp, a gay guy with nice or sweet face with very thin body. They need more foods and training.
Looking for Networking: A man who travels a lot and is on the lookout for vacation flings. He won’t ever call you back.
Lounge lizard (n.) – someone who frequents bars, trying to pick up other peoples’ mates.
Mother (n.) - The mother is the gay guys who always have advices for their gay children.
MSM: An abbreviation for men who have sex with men. This term emphasizes the behavior, rather than the identities of the individuals involved.
MTF: An abbreviation for a male-to-female transgender individual. This person most likely uses feminine pronouns.
NSA: No-strings-attached casual sex, that doesn’t involve feelings or goodbye messages.
Otter: A thinner, younger version of the Bear. Has nothing to do with the animal.
Pig (n.) - A gay guy who gets off sexually by doing raunchy things like spit, licking sweaty armpits or sniffing dirty underwear and socks or eating ass for hours, they mayalso like pissing, fisting, jizz and various kind of any other kinky stuffs.
Platinum Gay (n.) - A Gold Star Gay who was born by caesarean section so he has never had any contact with a vagina. A term re-popularized by a recent Will & Grace episode. The platinum gay may be proud of their gay sexual identity and only been physically intimate with other penises.
Polar bear (n.) - An big old, hairy gay guy with greying or white hair
Power bottom: A bottom that is really greedy in sex. He can bottom so hard. He can take it really well. He will never complain when you have a big dick and fuck him hard. He'll say "harder, give it to me, harder".
Poz: An out-and-proud HIV Positive man who’s doing what a lot of men out there are not — telling us about his status.
PULSE: The most fabulous gay clinic of it all.
Slam: injecting drugs into the vein. A lot of time it doesn't really go into the vein and it gets really really bad.
Smurf (n.) – twink but usually more pejorative, as it implies a “bitchy” demeanor.
Snowballing (n.) – When you take someone's cum into your mouth and then feed it to other people mouth to mouth.
Sub/Submissive/Slave: A gay man who likes being bossed around in bed. (Not to be confused with the derogatory term used during the American pre-Civil Rights era.)
Stud (n.) – A very good looking sexy gay man who's sexually active and good at satisfying his partners. When you look at him you feel "Umm he can fuck me really good".
The Closet: A place where you keep all your ridiculously expensive clothes, your snug woolens, and yourself, when you are not out to the world. In other words, a gay man who has not told anyone he’s gay.
Tonsil Hockey: When you are kissing someone so fiercely, it could be a competitive sport.
Top: The inserting sexual partner; also known as ‘someone who likes to put it in’.
Twink: A younger or young-looking, smoother, cockier gay man with little or no facial or body hair.
Vanilla: Someone who likes his sex just like he likes his family values, traditional. I am not judging but it's boring.
Vegetarian (n.) – homosexual male who will not give oral.
Versatile: A gay man who likes it both ways, but is secretly a bottom.
Wolf: A hairy gay man who’s neither a Bear nor an Otter but floats somewhere in between. Also, he's a little bit more aggressive and more dom.
YAG (Gay upside down) (n.) - Homosexuals who refuse to be associated with a gay group or community and are recognised by their lifestyle.
Yestergay: A gay man who now refers to himself as straight. But is not.